FIRST of all, I have a confession to make. I have never
played domino before, I have never seen anyone play domino before, I don’t even
know the rules of dominos, the only thing I know about domino is its spelling
and its pronunciation however I have a ten chaptered poem titled “DOMINO.”
DOMINO I is the whole foundation of J.Y. Frimpong. This poem
is like my first ever published poem (published on facebook and in “A BOOK THAT
NEVER DIES). Before this poem, I had not done much writing. The only writing I
did at that time was writing poems for a few friends of mine. In fact, many
people who knew me did not even know that I could even do poetry till I
released this poem.
Before DOMINO I, I had no plans of becoming a poet but many
events around me pushed me into writing this poem. I was suffering inside and I
wanted to express my feelings (am a bit emotional). I was facing relationship
issues, friendship issues and also I felt so depressed in my whole life at that
time.. In my entire life, I have been a lot successful in many projects I had
undertaken till my biggest failure which lies on the path of relationships
(where relationship here implies a boy and a girl kind of special dating
relationship stuff) popped its head up. That has been my greatest failure and
because of that I have promised myself not to enter in a relationship (at least
for now). I felt and I still feel that my two failed relationship is so alright
and enough for me. That is why my maxim since 2011 has always read “My mobile
phone battery last longer than most relationships on this Earth”
So then I remember it was a Monday, I couldn’t take it any
longer so I took a pen and a paper and I wrote these words.
When I am crying,
I will walk in the
rain.
When I am sweating,
I will walk in the
sun.
When everyone thinks
I am “this”,
I will hold my neck
high and say I am “that.”
For if I don’t defend
myself who would?
For if I don’t
cherish myself who would?
For if you allow them
to get you
It will have a domino
effect on you
The world;
May judge you by a
picture.
May think they know
you better than yourself.
May think you are
nobody.
May think you are
useless.
But;
You are something
worth more than a picture.
You know yourself
better than anyone does.
You are someone
somebody looks up to.
You can be used for
things beyond measure.
After writing these lines, I put “DOMINO I” on my facebook notes
and tagged a couple of friends and I got many responses (positive ones) telling
me about how they loved my work. I was very happy inside but then I was
suffering from another problem; although I had successful let out my emotions,
I became afraid of my own poem that I couldn’t read it again after putting it
on facebook. Whenever I tell people that after writing poem and publishing
“DOMINO I”, I have never had the courage to read it, they think I am lying. I
couldn’t read it because I felt that it was just reminding me of my failure.
For about 2 years, I was so afraid of reading this poem. The only time I got
over this fear was when I decided to embark on this “Behind The Poem” project
that I have this courage of reading it again. After reading “DOMINO I” again, I
asked myself “Why were you so much afraid of this poem?” And as for the rest of
the “DOMINOS (II – X), I always read it as least once a month even before this
project.
In compiling the poems for “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES”, I just
copied and pasted it without even reading it to see if there was a mistake in
it. Every time I read “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES” I always skipped this poem but
right now, I look at this poem and smile because I think that it is a good poem
and it has shaped my writing style up to now.
When I was choosing the theme poem for “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES”,
almost everyone recommended that I choose this poem but I didn’t because I just
didn’t want to read it again. So when I made the announcement that I had chosen
“LIVING TO DIE” as the theme for “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES”, most of my friends
were so disappointed. Maybe I think that it was one of the reasons why people
felt that “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES” would have been better if I had listened to
advice. They were just blaming me but what they didn’t know was that I was so
ashamed to read my own poem. I hated being reminded of my failure. Probably, if
I had chosen “DOMINO” as the theme poem maybe I would not have had the
motivation to write “THE MYTH OF THE RAINMAKER and “THE CREATION STORY” and the
other poems of “A BOOK THAT NEVER DIES.” Living to die is my biggest influence
and I am going to talk about it in the next edition of “Behind The Poem”
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